Masturbation & Christianity: Is it a Sin to Explore Your Body?
The topic of masturbation has long been a point of shock and horror for many Christian circles. The word itself elicits faces of disgust...
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We Need People Who Get It
I love helping people in my office. Usually the biggest thing I do for them is listen well. Yes, that's something their friends could do,...
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No Really, It's Trauma
Doing EMDR work regularly now, I am realizing how many people prevent themselves from healing simply by refusing to recognize that their...
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Other People's Parties
This weekend we hosted a party for my niece's husband (I know that sounds odd, but he's older than my husband, so it's just weird for us...
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Parenting is a Mind-Cuss
I am finding launching a child into the big wide world to be so precarious. I believe she can do it, but I have my doubts. She thinks she...
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Pain Can Be Good
I have enough friends who live with chronic pain to know better than to say that all pain is good. But what I am seeing lately is that...
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9 Tips to Prepare for a Healthy Marriage
So you’ve picked a phenomenal person to tie the knot with. You want a healthy marriage. You want your union to last. You want to honor...
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We're All Immature: Ideas for Personal Goals
Can we be graceful with our immaturity? All of us... in different ways. If we could wrap our heads around the fact that being a human...
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What Can Christian Couples Do Before Marriage?
When it comes to navigating Christian relationships, it’s not uncommon to be curious about how your Christianity applies to your sexual...
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The Magic is in the Mix
This weekend Cass and his band recorded for a new album coming up and I had the honored privilege of hanging out in the tech room at...
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How to Increase Dialogue
I've been meeting with a friend lately who is pretty explicitly political. I wanted to talk with her to better understand where she was...
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You're Not Real.
Talking with my friends and clients in the queer community, one of the most painful interactions they report is telling someone they love...
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How to Support Your Spouse
In 2009 my husband and I decided to move into the city, buy a house and have our third kid, while I had a part time job and he was...
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How to Play the Game
I spend time talking with a lot of couples who have "lost the spark" in their marriages. Something between them has dulled over the...
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Why is the Player Attractive?
Because he's attuned. He's got a skill we all appreciate—being paid close attention to. Of course we don't want to be stalked and hunted...
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Local Foreign: Mission Questions #6
If by thinking through all my questions you've decided that sharing your faith is important, how do you know where God is calling you to...
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Romance Isn't That Difficult
Sometimes when I talk about romance, I can hear the groans and see the eye rolls before the words are even out of my mouth. A lot of...
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Five Steps for Developing Your Voice
In learning to use one's voice, it's easy to think you're not making any progress. For anyone first discovering that they have real...
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Burdens and Loads: Health in Community
Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can...
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Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
- Nov 21, 2022
Whoops, Try Again
Who wants to do better with male/female relationships? I do! As we navigate the new world in conservative culture where men and women are...
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