One of my proudest moments was in fifth grade when the only kid from our entire class who beat me around the track was a boy named Joey....

When I was in college, I decided to shave my head. I had always wondered what it felt like to actually be able to rub my own skull...

Doing EMDR work regularly now, I am realizing how many people prevent themselves from healing simply by refusing to recognize that their...

A lot of Christians are vehemently opposed to porn. They don't like the masochistic themes, the unethical treatment of women and...

When men get big and loud we tend to believe they have something to get big and loud about. We think they're righting some wrong,...

I have wrestled with this question so much because I grew up hearing I needed to "act like a lady," meaning cross my legs when I sat. I...

Lately I've been concerned that neither I nor my clients have any idea what normal aging bodies look like. With social media, diet...

In the well-framed words by Esther Perel, she describes the confusing message of purity culture as "Sex is bad and dirty, but save it for...

Growing up I knew of only two options: pretty, "graceful," gorgeous, clean, beautiful, and put together OR rough, rude, rugged, nasty,...

This semester I'm teaching a workshop on sex to my church. It's called The Truth About Holy Sex. (Subscribe to my blog to catch the...