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Brandi K. Harris


Counselor, Author, & Speaker

Helping others develop healthy relationships & find fulfilling shame-free sex


Brandi is a professional counselor, author, speaker, teacher, and coach. She has been practicing counseling for almost fifteen years and published her first book in 2015, kicking off a round of parenting classes and teaching gigs. Before that, she coached swimming and taught human development at the graduate level for a local university. She was a varsity rower at the NCAA Division I level for all four years of college, has run two marathons, and actually built her house with her own two hands and her family over the past ten years.


Brandi’s work seeks to create spaces for healing, living freely, and sharing stories. This includes creating resources to help her fellow humans step into their own voices. Most recently, her work has focused on healthy relationships and shame-free sex. Her latest workbook The Truth About Holy Sex deals with mixed messages and damaging, inaccurate information perpetuated in both conservative and the broader American culture. The workbook is designed to identify truth and to help those who love Jesus learn to love holy sex.


Personally, Brandi is a mom to 3 kids, a wife, a friend, and a follower of Jesus. She’s also done a few random things like playing roller derby, chopping wood, living communally with her neighbors, and shaving her head. She no longer has a belly button. She's just a fun human who makes mistakes and then tries to recover.

Suggested Interview Topics

  • Relationships

  • Identity Development & Discovery

  • Sex

  • Parenting

  • Sabbath

  • Mixed Messages Around Sex & Relationships in the Church

  • Counseling Ethics


Suggested Interview Questions

  • What are some of the misleading messages we hear [at home, at school, at church] about sex growing up?

  • What are some ways we could practice self-care and healthier community living?

  • Tell me about the importance of sex education.

  • How does patriarchy affect our relationships?

  • What does a healthy relationship look like?

  • When is a good time to consider going to counseling?

  • What impact has purity culture had in shaping our view of sex and relationships?

  • Tell me about your books [The Truth About Holy Sex, Love Well, and Grace for Parents].

  • What is one tip that if a couple implemented it today would benefit their relationship?



The Truth About Holy Sex


Love Well


Grace for Parents

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