9 Tips to Prepare for a Healthy Marriage
So you’ve picked a phenomenal person to tie the knot with. You want a healthy marriage. You want your union to last. You want to honor...
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What Can Christian Couples Do Before Marriage?
When it comes to navigating Christian relationships, it’s not uncommon to be curious about how your Christianity applies to your sexual...
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How to Play the Game
I spend time talking with a lot of couples who have "lost the spark" in their marriages. Something between them has dulled over the...
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Why is the Player Attractive?
Because he's attuned. He's got a skill we all appreciate—being paid close attention to. Of course we don't want to be stalked and hunted...
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What's the Real Problem: Masturbation or Porn?
A lot of Christians are vehemently opposed to porn. They don't like the masochistic themes, the unethical treatment of women and...
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Romance Isn't That Difficult
Sometimes when I talk about romance, I can hear the groans and see the eye rolls before the words are even out of my mouth. A lot of...
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Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
- Oct 10, 2022
What to Do When Your Kid Dresses Immodestly?
I have wrestled with this question so much because I grew up hearing I needed to "act like a lady," meaning cross my legs when I sat. I...
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Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
- Nov 29, 2021
Porn? But How...
Pornographic (adj). - designed to elicit arousal from the audience. That's right. Pornography includes any media or art form designed to...
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Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
- Nov 22, 2021
Porn? So what...
The first time I found porn I was about eleven at a friend's house. At that point it was interesting and odd, but definitely already had...
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Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
- Oct 17, 2021
Rec: Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Working with another therapist a few months ago, I got a recommendation for a book that has now blown my mind. In Unwanted, How Sexual...
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Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
- Aug 22, 2021
My People
My most recent big writing project pushed me in very uncomfortable ways. It had to happen quickly. It was over an inflammatory, delicate...
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Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
- Oct 11, 2020
Penis Importante
I've discovered a hidden biblical theme that is going to make some of you very uncomfortable. Pouring over the stories, I'm finding some...
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