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How to Play the Game
I spend time talking with a lot of couples who have "lost the spark" in their marriages. Something between them has dulled over the...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 15, 2023


Why is the Player Attractive?
Because he's attuned. He's got a skill we all appreciate—being paid close attention to. Of course we don't want to be stalked and hunted...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 8, 2023


Local Foreign: Mission Questions #6
If by thinking through all my questions you've decided that sharing your faith is important, how do you know where God is calling you to...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Apr 17, 2023


Romance Isn't That Difficult
Sometimes when I talk about romance, I can hear the groans and see the eye rolls before the words are even out of my mouth. A lot of...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Feb 6, 2023


Five Steps for Developing Your Voice
In learning to use one's voice, it's easy to think you're not making any progress. For anyone first discovering that they have real...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jan 30, 2023


Burdens and Loads: Health in Community
Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jan 23, 2023


Whoops, Try Again
Who wants to do better with male/female relationships? I do! As we navigate the new world in conservative culture where men and women are...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 21, 2022


One-On-One
As I'm venturing into the better world where men and women are no longer afraid of each other, I have a lingering concern that I am going...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 7, 2022


Excuse Me, Sir?
In my rally to become a better Sister in Christ, my current venture is to confront the oddities between the genders directly. If you saw...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 31, 2022


Hold On a Second
I've known for a long time that men and women in the church don't know how to relate to one another in a healthy, calm way. But the...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 24, 2022


Maintenance + Eye Contact
You've seen it… A crazed older man rummaging through the store, knocking things off the shelf, yelling erratically, "Where is it? Where...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Sep 12, 2022


Be the Best Friend
I've been married for over twenty years. In that span of time I've been in a lot of different roles with my husband. I've been his lover,...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Sep 5, 2022


Grape Bubble Gum
It was a chill night with good food and fun people. Then suddenly someone was yelling. There were obscure accusations. Wild threatening....
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 29, 2022


NOT a Family
Please beware any company telling you that they are glad to have you as a part of their "family." Lately I've heard from several clients...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 22, 2022


The Whole Contract
No one gets to see the whole contract before they get married. Not a one of us. Signing up for a lifetime with another messy human is...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 8, 2022


Marriage Knots
It's funny to me that we colloquially refer to marriage as "tying the knot" because often that's exactly what I feel like I'm trying to...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 1, 2022


Gentler
A few weeks ago I was in El Salvador. I'd been warned that the culture there was much more subtle and that often Americans are perceived...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jul 25, 2022


Late Hope
***From my cousin's funeral a few years ago.*** We grew up seeing each other only on holidays when we were kids, so I don’t feel like I...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jul 4, 2022


Yourself is Good Enough
If I am this fragile just dropping my sweet girl off at camp for a month, what kind of sloppy mess will I be when I have to leave her at...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jun 6, 2022


Maintenance + Adulting
There are quite a few things in life that I do ONLY because I have to. For example… documenting my sessions with clients, going to the...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 23, 2022
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