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Catan Fights: How Non-destructive Conflict Breeds Intimacy
A few years ago some of our best friends introduced us to the game of Catan. If you're not familiar, it's a multiplayer board game that...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Feb 12, 2024


Wait, what now? Reading between the lines in passive aggressive communication
Growing up in a home that spoke fluent passive aggression, I am skilled at reading between the lines and catching messages sent under the...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jan 29, 2024


Why They Leave: 3 Risks Christian Marriages Have to Guard Against
How important is marriage? What if that marriage is unhealthy? What if my needs aren’t being met? Doesn’t God hate divorce? Marriage and...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jan 22, 2024


Why Am I Numb? The Effects of Emotional Neglect
You fall off your bike. You cry. You bleed. Your parent hears you, patches you up, and sends you back out into the world. But the next...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jan 15, 2024


Supported or Spoiled
Having interacted with a lot of kids over the course of my life leaves me recognizing differences. Now of course, every child is not only...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jan 1, 2024


A Fresh Start: The Year of Jubilee
A bright golden sparkler stands out amidst a dark night background, symbolizing joy in the Year of Jubilee.
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Dec 11, 2023


Clear is Kind: How to Communicate with Family
Dealing with family this holiday season, keep in mind… CLEAR IS KIND. Saying things like, "I think I'd maybe like, you know, if we had...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Dec 4, 2023


Masturbation & Christianity: Is it a Sin to Explore Your Body?
The topic of masturbation has long been a point of shock and horror for many Christian circles. The word itself elicits faces of disgust...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 27, 2023


We Need People Who Get It
I love helping people in my office. Usually the biggest thing I do for them is listen well. Yes, that's something their friends could do,...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 16, 2023


No Really, It's Trauma
Doing EMDR work regularly now, I am realizing how many people prevent themselves from healing simply by refusing to recognize that their...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 2, 2023


Other People's Parties
This weekend we hosted a party for my niece's husband (I know that sounds odd, but he's older than my husband, so it's just weird for us...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Sep 25, 2023


Parenting is a Mind-Cuss
I am finding launching a child into the big wide world to be so precarious. I believe she can do it, but I have my doubts. She thinks she...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 28, 2023


Pain Can Be Good
I have enough friends who live with chronic pain to know better than to say that all pain is good. But what I am seeing lately is that...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 21, 2023


9 Tips to Prepare for a Healthy Marriage
So you’ve picked a phenomenal person to tie the knot with. You want a healthy marriage. You want your union to last. You want to honor...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 14, 2023


We're All Immature: Ideas for Personal Goals
Can we be graceful with our immaturity? All of us... in different ways. If we could wrap our heads around the fact that being a human...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jul 24, 2023


What Can Christian Couples Do Before Marriage?
When it comes to navigating Christian relationships, it’s not uncommon to be curious about how your Christianity applies to your sexual...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jul 17, 2023


The Magic is in the Mix
This weekend Cass and his band recorded for a new album coming up and I had the honored privilege of hanging out in the tech room at...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jun 26, 2023


How to Increase Dialogue
I've been meeting with a friend lately who is pretty explicitly political. I wanted to talk with her to better understand where she was...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jun 19, 2023


You're Not Real.
Talking with my friends and clients in the queer community, one of the most painful interactions they report is telling someone they love...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jun 5, 2023


How to Support Your Spouse
In 2009 my husband and I decided to move into the city, buy a house and have our third kid, while I had a part time job and he was...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 29, 2023
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