I love helping people in my office. Usually the biggest thing I do for them is listen well. Yes, that's something their friends could do,...

Doing EMDR work regularly now, I am realizing how many people prevent themselves from healing simply by refusing to recognize that their...

This weekend we hosted a party for my niece's husband (I know that sounds odd, but he's older than my husband, so it's just weird for us...

I am finding launching a child into the big wide world to be so precarious. I believe she can do it, but I have my doubts. She thinks she...

I have enough friends who live with chronic pain to know better than to say that all pain is good. But what I am seeing lately is that...

So you’ve picked a phenomenal person to tie the knot with. You want a healthy marriage. You want your union to last. You want to honor...

Can we be graceful with our immaturity? All of us... in different ways. If we could wrap our heads around the fact that being a human...

When it comes to navigating Christian relationships, it’s not uncommon to be curious about how your Christianity applies to your sexual...

This weekend Cass and his band recorded for a new album coming up and I had the honored privilege of hanging out in the tech room at...

I've been meeting with a friend lately who is pretty explicitly political. I wanted to talk with her to better understand where she was...

Talking with my friends and clients in the queer community, one of the most painful interactions they report is telling someone they love...

In 2009 my husband and I decided to move into the city, buy a house and have our third kid, while I had a part time job and he was...

I spend time talking with a lot of couples who have "lost the spark" in their marriages. Something between them has dulled over the...

Because he's attuned. He's got a skill we all appreciate—being paid close attention to. Of course we don't want to be stalked and hunted...

If by thinking through all my questions you've decided that sharing your faith is important, how do you know where God is calling you to...

Sometimes when I talk about romance, I can hear the groans and see the eye rolls before the words are even out of my mouth. A lot of...

In learning to use one's voice, it's easy to think you're not making any progress. For anyone first discovering that they have real...

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can...

Who wants to do better with male/female relationships? I do! As we navigate the new world in conservative culture where men and women are...

As I'm venturing into the better world where men and women are no longer afraid of each other, I have a lingering concern that I am going...