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Working Together
I spent most of today stripping stain and varnish off a bed frame gifted to me by my aunt. I don't know what I'm doing. I watched a few YouTube videos, called a few experienced friends and borrowed a workspace and an orbital sander from a neighbor. I sent update pics to a few of my fans who cheered me on. I am learning as I go, failing and trying again. It's slow progress, but I am having a wonderful time. You could say that I spent most of my day alone, but it didn't feel li
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 20, 2025


No Reward for Overworking
America loves to overwork. America praises those who worship the grind, pull themselves up by their own bootstraps, and never settle for good enough. I see it every day on billboards, watch it on social media, hear it from talking heads, and feel it in cultural undertones. Sometimes we do it because we want to. Sometimes we do it because we think we have to. I get ahead by my own two hands. I can't stop or else I'll fall behind. If I don't keep working, what will I have? And
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 13, 2025


Getting it Out
write to think think to speak speak to feel Everyone works differently. For most of my life I have needed to put words onto paper in...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 6, 2025


Sex as Play
What is it about adults that we forget how to play? My guess is it's the bills and the appointments and the meetings and the car...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Sep 29, 2025


The Marriage Garden
Anytime you commit to a relationship with someone, you're essentially agreeing to work the emotional ground between you. It's a joint...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Sep 22, 2025
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